The Conversation with Amanda de Cadenet

A few years ago, Amanda de Cadenet created and produced an alternative interview series together with Demi Moore. The goal was to get interesting women from different ages, industries and backgrounds in front of the camera and open up about their lives.


People like Diane von Fursternberg, Ivanka Trump, Rita Wilson, Alicia Keys and even Hillary Clinton open their hears and minds talking about life, love, careers, sexuality, parenting etc.

From time to time I watch these videos and each time I discover new motivations and inspirations. Because these women are so unpretentious, open and honest during these conversations I find it very refreshing listening to their ideas, experiences and opinions. I hope you can find something in them as well….



Happy New Year – Look of the week

First post of 2016…. let’s start with my look of last week’s New Year’s Eve party!

Entering 2016 meant first food & wine and then music & bubbles. I wore a cute red dress from Karen Millen. The dress is dark red and the lace print on it is more of a bright red color. I combined it with my Giuseppe Zanotti booties and my pink Miss Dior bag… and the outfit was complete.

Had I know that after the party we had to walk home because there was no available taxi to be found anywhere, I would have worn different (read: less expensive) shoes…. My heels were ruined by the time I got home :(


Black beauty pow(d)er

Activated_charcoalHave you ever heard about activated charcoal?

No, it’s not the charcoal you use for drawing, but the medicinal version of it. It has the incredible powers to attract toxins like a magnet. It was already used in hospitals for specific treatments… but of course the beauty industry discovered it and found many new ways to benefit from it. Going from juices to face masks, toothpaste and facial cleansers.

I love the black masks because they clarify the pores and get rid of any impurities. The new beauty line of H&M has some nice face masks with activated coal in them. Soft baby skin guaranteed! Once a week, I also use the powder to brush my teeth with. You’re not going to get a blinding bright white smile with it, but your teeth will get a few shades whiter. And from time to time I treat myself with a Black Box 3-day detox from Detox Delight. Because beauty also comes from the inside out.

What about you? Will you be using one of these black beauty wonders any time soon?

  1. Origins – Clear Improvement Active Charcoal Mask to Clear Pores
  2. Beverly Hills Formula – Perfect White Black Toothpaste
  3. Lush – Dark Angels Face & Body Cleanser
  4. Detox Delight – Black Box 3-day Detox


The success story of Mrs Spanx

With the reviving of Sofischoice, I also want to add some “business touch” to the blog. There is a new category called career stuff. I am intrigued by successful business women and their way to the top. This article about Sara Blakely, a corporate power woman, is the start of many more business stories to be shared. Nothing too boring, but things we can all learn from. 

Sara Blakely is the youngest self-made female billionaire.
Now that is a title to be proud of!

Sara is the founder of shape wear company Spanx. 15 years ago, at the age of 29, she invested her $5,000 life savings trying to come up with something flattering to wear under her white slacks. The rest is history.



Earlier this year, at the Forbes Women’s Summit in New York, Blakely shared her best advice for entrepreneurs:

As soon as you can afford to, hire your weaknesses,” she said. “What you’re not good at is usually what you don’t like.”

Blakely hired a CEO to run the business when Spanx was just two years old. This allowed her to focus on the things she was good at, such as marketing, selling on QVC, and inventing new products.

No matter what your personality or skills may be, understanding how you can add the most value is the surest path to success.

Secret weapon

But a weakness can also be a secret weapon as Sara explains:

“One of my greatest weaknesses, is also one of my greatest strengths: being underestimated.

When you think of it, that is just brilliant. Women are so often undervalued in the business environment, that when you are competent and smart… you can win them over by surprise. Now that is something to keep in mind next time you are in front of a male audience.

Social Responsibility

She is not just at the high of her game when it comes to business and making money, she is also great at giving some of her wealth to charities supporting women and girls.

In 2013, she was the first female billionaire to join the Giving Pledge, Bill Gates and Warren Buffett’s bid to encourage the world’s richest people to give at least half their wealth to charity.


Source: Forbes, Business Insider, Spanx, the Giving Pledge

Reviving Sofischoice

Hi there!

The last 2,5 years I have been very busy running my own lifestyle company. Working day and night in building something from scratch, didn’t leave me much time to spend on my blog. But things are changing and the time is right to put more love and attention to Sofischoice. Working on my first post as we speak…

TTFN ;-)


Style crush – Jenna Lyons

Jenna Lyons, president and executive creative director Jenna Lyons of J. Crew, has become the embodiment of everything the label represents, and acts as the brand’s de facto spokesperson, designer, model, stylist, and muse.

I love her style of mixing fancy luxury items like sequin tops, satin trousers, fur and statement jewelry with classic basic items such as white shirts, striped tees, crewneck sweaters and jeans. If you look in the dictionary for easy chic, you will find her picture there. I’m a fan!


Les fabuleux dessins de Garance

20130822-213141.jpgGarance Doré, french fashion blogger/illustrator/photographer, has teamed up with Swedish clothing brand Marc O’Polo and created a capsule collection for their fall-winter collection 2013. It includes T-shirts and sweatshirts printed with Doré’s drawings and accompanying text.


Seize the day. Stay inspired.

I love her chic french style of drawing. It’s very romantic, seventies-inspired and… very Chloé if you ask me.

My order has been placed!

20130822-213332.jpgNow available on and Marc O’Polo stores.